Primitive "diapering" methods often involved placing soft, absorbent materials under baby's bottom inside the sling or papoose. Their purpose was to add extra protection during times of cold weather, travel, and busy-ness. Their purpose was NOT to serve as a full-time toilet.
Those early humans who did not need a "back-up" for their babies (ie: lived in a settlement, not as nomadic, and in warmer climates) simply carried baby around naked inside the sling when pre-mobile, and when they received a signal from baby that they were uncomfortable, they pottied baby through a "point and shoot" method - aiming them into the bush to relieve themselves hygienically. (The preference for hygiene is a deep survival instinct that all of us humans possess.) Then baby returned happily to the sling.
When babies were of crawling age, they simply were "toilet independent" in that they would crawl to the space that all the other humans relieved themselves, pee or poo, and then return to what they were doing.
(More than half the world's babies in current times are still toilet independent by 12 months old by the very same methods above, which we humans have used for all of human history.)
Cloth diapers became commercially available about 200 years ago. Their purpose was to add extra protection until the baby was able to crawl to the chamber pot or outdoors to relieve herself, and at the most, until the baby was able to walk (which is when all babies were completely trained to use the toilet). Their purpose, in the beginning (prior to the 1960s), was NOT to serve as a full-time toilet...but rather to protect the home environment until mobility allowed the child to be trained.
(One manual in the 1950's noted that any poop catch before the child was walking was bonus points! Here's a pic of how it was to catch such a pre-walking "pottytunity.")
Disposable diapers hit the market in 1961. Mothers *hated* them. There was no way they were going to put paper on their baby's precious bottoms.
The diaper companies then began shifting cultural and social belief systems around delaying potty training to protect your child from harm...something we'll discuss in tomorrow's paradigm-shifting tip.
After doing so successfully, the diaper, from 1961 onward, morphed into a full-time wearable toilet.
Parents were taught by pediatricians to ignore their children's interest in the toilet, cast aside the developmentally-appropriate tradition of training before or upon walking, and to train their children INTO diapers, NOT the toilet, as had been done for ALL OF HUMAN HISTORY.
IN THE 1960s, THE DIAPER BECAME THE BABY'S PRIMARY TOILET. (Even cloth diapers!!)
You see, diapers were always meant to be "back-ups"....a TOOL to be used until mobility and/or the mother was tired of hanging diapers to dry. Toilet trained by 9 months old? Extremely common in the 1950s...and also common in current-day countries where there aren't disposable diapers (or their companies' exquisite marketing).
Delayed toilet training is a social trend...not a medical necessity, and certainly not in the best interest of baby's health or hygiene.
Read more in today's blog post here.
We will discuss the paradigm shift regarding our beliefs about what age is safe to toilet train in tomorrow's tip.
And once we resolve all these myths, I will then give you some very practical tips (#3, 4, and 5) that will get you off on the right foot to diaper independence THIS WEEK.
But before that...here's what I want you to do TODAY for the 6th Annual International Go Diaper Free Week.
DAY #1 TO-DO:
1. Let today's tip percolate. Let it steep. Let it sink in. The diaper is meant to be a back-up...not a permanent toilet.
2. If you've been using it as a permanent toilet...you've got to give yourself some GRACE. You've only done what you were taught to do, and you didn't know otherwise, so be easy on yourself...and then make some changes, this week. :) It's never too late to start EC or start potty training. Never ever evah!!
3. Listen to my podcast episode called A Brief History of Diapers.
And that's it for today's tip, folks.
Be sure you've thrown your name in the hat for the giveaway this week. And I have a Q+A Monday, EC Class Tuesday, and Potty Training Class Thursday - see the main GDF Week page here for more info and to register.
And now I'd love to hear from you: