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Resistance: My baby resists the potty and pees on the floor right after.

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Q: What do you do if your infant does not want to use the potty at all? My baby went through a period of fussing and fighting it when I tried to potty her. I did not want to force her, but I knew she had to go--shortly after we stopped trying she would go pee on the floor. (At the time I was focusing more on timing. I pottied her just after she woke up, before putting her to sleep, and once in between.) ~Jodie D., Currently stationed overseas in Rota, Spain (Hometown: Santa Clarita, CA) 

A: Hey Jodie! Great question. I had several similar questions come up while surveying my readers for their top questions...illustrating its place as #1. I want to include them here as well:

  1. I just started ECing this week with my 6 month old daughter. I was surprised and delighted that she peed on the very first try! That gave me hope and so I continued. We have had major success first thing in the morning, after naps, and at least once during the night. Other times, though, she resists even when I know she needs to pee or poo and as soon as I set her down she goes on the floor. Any ideas why she would be willing to EC some times but not others?
    ~Alauna F., Standish, Maine
  2. Is there anything we can do when a child rejects to pee in a potty but runs away and pees on a floor in like 15 minutes?
    Is it something he is experimenting with his "limits of power" or just physiological necessity to pee not now but in 15 minutes?
    ~Sofya, USA
  3. My seven month old son is currently going through a time where he doesn't want to use his potty. We take him, he doesn't pee, and then he pees two minutes later. This has happened in the past, but he's got over it. Now it seems to be happening again. My question is: why might a baby go through times of a potty strike if you could call it that?
    ~Natalie, Alberta, Canada

The summary version of this and your question, Jodie, is indeed the way you stated it, plus the "why" behind it:

What do you do if your infant does not want to use the potty at all (and then pees on the floor minutes later)? And why might this happen?

Here's my "nutshell" answer of what to do, then I'll cover the why and the what to do in more depth:

My Nutshell Answer for "What to Do"

First of all, look at your life from an outsider's point of view and see if there's been a major shift somewhere in there that your baby's responding to. It could even be that he's teething or on the verge of walking. Make the stress, or the pain, less by doing what your heart says to do.

Next, look at your level of potty centeredness. Are you obsessed? Are pee and poo the major topic of your day-t0-day? Do you get annoyed when things aren't all perfect catches? Do you keep track of catches?

It's always good to back off a few steps and try to connect with your baby instead of focusing on EC. Don't worry, it won't all go to hell. Diffusing your EC focus and lowering the # of times you offer a pottytunity ALWAYS results positively!

And then see if there might be something you can teach your tot to help her have more control over the process. She just might be longing for a piece of the puzzle that you can give her!

Oh, and might need to lay down the law (gently, but firmly) that "we sit on the potty when we need to pee." If, indeed, you are certain that your baby needs to go but is obviously resisting may gently hold her on there in a hug and set the record straight. More details below...but for now just know that you have permission to lovingly discipline your child around pottying (and, well, everything...they actually want us to set boundaries for them!).

Now to the nitty gritty detailed answers..."Why?"

First I'll address the why. Why do babies sometimes resist the potty, and sometimes pee on the floor moments later?

Let us define what's happening here: If potty resistance has been happening for several days in a row, your baby may be experiencing a Potty Pause. In conventional potty training terminology, this is called a Potty Strike.

See the above "Potty Pause" link to a blog post of mine that speaks to alternative views on potty pauses. And here's an excerpt from my book that covers the possible reasons:

Possible Reasons for Potty Pauses

Some reasons for potty pauses may be that baby is about to hit a developmental milestone (crawling, walking, talking, etc.), she is teething, she is sick, she is undergoing a growth spurt, she has a food intolerance or allergy, or she is distracted by her budding awareness of the world.

Some also believe that baby is testing her own limits, and that “potty pauses” are just part of the learning process. They are not necessarily a failure in EC, per se, but a sign that your baby is [healthily] becoming aware of her ability to hold it, let it go where she wishes, and decide whether or not to go at all...independence, ability, and decision-making in action! (See Article [here] for the whole theory.)

Some babies pause their pottying patterns because of their caregiverʼs energy around pottying...whether the parent is hovering or hyperfocusing on pottying, feels stressed or pressured around pottying, is anxiety or frustrated, babies pick up on it and can choose to respond by pausing. Check in with your own stress level and (hovering?) energy around might have to dig deep to find out what youʼre emitting.

In my opinion the reason above is the top cause for potty pauses: pottycenteredness in the parent.

Other babies pause because of a big lifestyle shift in the family: travel, divorce, moving, job loss, parental discord, parent(s) working overtime, etc.

Lastly, a possibility that I often ponder is that Western babies will all of a sudden resist the usual potty routine because they are not raised in tribal communities...

Okay. So that tells you why your baby may be resisting all of sudden, after a lengthy period of success with Elimination Communication.

Again, I definitely recommend reading the article I mentioned above - about an alternative take on potty pauses.

It addresses the "peeing right after" phenomenon nicely!

And the next part of the nitty gritty: "What to do?"

Now let's look at what to do if your baby is resisting and then peeing on the floor moments later.

Again, read the alternative take on potty pauses article (which has a unique perspective of "what to do" in it).

Furthermore, I'll address the question of "what to do" in three parts: (1) How to get through a resistant phase (or Potty Pause), (2) What to do if your child just won't sit on the potty, and (3) What to do about the "peeing a few minutes later" thing.

(1) How to get through a resistant phase (or Potty Pause)

Here's another excerpt from my book. Yep, this came up so much that it warranted a special section in there. We also address it often on the private Forum. Here's a quote:

How to Get Through a Potty Pause

Although it may not be pleasant to be in the middle of a Potty Pause (in conventional potty training, itʼs called a Potty Strike)...know that youʼre not alone.

Here are some suggestions that experienced ECers report have helped them get through potty pauses:

1. Focus on being a happy & peaceful parent for the moment. Reconnect with your baby, removing your focus on EC for now. Take a nap with your baby, read books together, put her in the baby carrier and wear her around the neighborhood, sing to her. Connect!

2. Back off. You might be focusing entirely too much on pottying. See #1. Offer less pottytunities. Your baby is more than just a peeing & pooing machine.

3. Teach a new skill. Your baby may lack one of the pieces she needs to feel ownership over this process. [There's a whole new section on these building blocks in my revised book.]

4. Wait it out. Remember that “this too shall pass.” Usually after a few days of whatever (your babyʼs experimentation or developmental milestone) babies go back into signaling and willingly potty full-force...sometimes even better than before.

5. Continue to prompt your baby to go. Donʼt just stop ECing all of a sudden, even as youʼre backing off. Try to address or support the developmental milestone or teething or chaos in the home...and as you “zoom out” from your potty focus, continue to offer when appropriate and at the most obvious times (like after a nap). Pottying follows mood, so support your baby through the change, when needed, & itʼll pass.

6. Gently experiment with different locations, environments, receptacles, positions, and/or cue noises. Get creative. Sometimes itʼs just a simple fix...your babyʼs pottying preferences may be whatʼs shifting. Change it up and see what happens.

7. Seek support. Come to the Book Owners Only Support Group and tell us whatʼs going on. So many parents donʼt ask for help. Whatever you need, seek it out.

8. Be easy on yourself. The pressure you put on yourself or your baby during these times will just make it worse. Be gentle, inside and out.

9. Donʼt take it personally. It isnʼt your fault. You didnʼt do anything wrong. Somethingʼs simply out of balance. Never blame yourself...your baby is communicating something by pausing. Try to distance yourself from the problem and observe it from afar, nonemotionally, perhaps with the help of a friend or your partner.

10. When you find yourself totally frustrated, notice Iʼm frustrated!, take a deep breath, and regain your center. Remember the long-term goals you have around your connection with your baby. This is a tiny sliver of time as compared to a lifetime with her!

11. Avoid coercion, punishment, anger directed at your baby, and general upset. They donʼt help. Take care of yourself so you donʼt find yourself going to these extremes. When you do feel negative emotions (we all do sometimes!), breath deeply and take a moment to regain your center.

12. Laugh often. Itʼs just a potty pause. Be happy that your baby even potties at all! Most of all: stop counting your miss:catch rate. Got you didnʼt I? Instead: grateful smile. :o)

Okay...the second of three:

(2) What to do if your child just won't sit on the potty

I've got a good excerpt from my book that covers this one, too. It might surprise you, but here goes:

My Baby Will Not Sit on the Potty Any More / Long Enough to Go

If you canʼt get him to sit on the pot and pee, then catch that pee in something. My potty trainer friend likes to use a Red Solo Cup. Try it and see if he or she can pee in it instead. Works for some!

For poos, and even sometimes with pees, you may need to snuggle your baby while gently holding her on there.

When you get the signal or see the pee/poo dance, sit your baby down on the potty and say "poo goes in the potty." If he tries to fuss out of it or stand up, hold him there in a snuggly warm hug, saying "This is how poo goes where it belongs. Thank you for sitting." Stroke his back, get close, sing to him.

Itʼs kinda like gently holding your flailing, screaming, rebelling child on the car seat as you strap her in while sheʼs struggling like hell to get out. It is for her safety, and you are not hurting her. You are taking charge in a way that is caring, healthy, and necessary.

Sometimes with pee and poo, it becomes the case of dire need. It is time. You need to sit for your hygiene, and your mental health.

Sometimes at night, when he was a young toddler, I had to hug my baby boy (who was not-so-cuddly) to get him to stay and finish his business (pees).

For poop, the instinct IS stronger to sit and squat, so *trust* that your child, once firmly encouraged, will get it and continue with consistency. If you need to show him how to squat, do so.

Just get the message across gently, firmly, and consistently, knowing in your heart that itʼs best for him to pee and poo in the potty, not on the floor or in his pants.

He will follow your lead.

I especially love this concept. It feels right in a way, doesn't it? Taking charge and all.

In fact, I recently read a story from a woman who met this challenge in a similar way. Here's a quote from that anonymous person who overcame potty resistance with loving discipline:

So I ask him to please sit, telling him the potty is for sitting and placing my hand against his pelvis to encourage him. After a minute of not-really-unhappy resistance on his part, he'll usually sit and pee. And if he does have to pee, he'll sit just in time, almost every time (so far), and seem relieved and not stressed anymore. If he continues to resist, I take him off, though, and figure that I misread his signals. Occasionally he will pee after he's off the potty, but not often.

And the third of the three "what to do"'s:

(3) What to do about the "peeing a few minutes later" thing

First off, you can try to get your baby to stay on the potty a few moments utilizing the sitting wisdom in (2) above.

You can also change your timing that is based on your baby's natural rhythms after eating and sleeping...offer the pottytunity 5-10 minutes

Next, when you arrive in the bathroom, close the door behind you. This can prevent a trail of pee after the resistance happens...and baby decides to galavant off and pees on the floor a tad bit later. You see, better to get the "after pee" IN the bathroom than on your carpet. :)

Also, limit naked time. I have a whole new section in my book about this topic. "Diaper-free" does NOT mean "naked all the time." If you meet resistance, back off and put a diaper back-up back on, if she does pee moments later then at least it'll be contained. When she's ready to pee in it a second time (if you didn't notice)...she'll most definitely tell you! And eventually the first pee in the diaper goes away too.

Make sense?

And The Re-set...a last resort for those who need one

I teach a tool called the "Re-set" in my book and on my Forum.

Basically, you're instituting a formal 2 week break from all ECing activities.

The main point is to give you, the parent, a break. To reduce the stress in the house. That sorta thing.

It also gives baby a chance to really tell you when he feels like he needs to go potty. All the pressure's off. No one to know about his needs but himself. Full control.

9 times out of 10, he'll start asking strongly during the re-set for you to take him. Of course, you would take him during the re-set ONLY if he strongly signals, but otherwise there is just one communication per morning:

"You are going to wear your diaper all day today. We're taking a break from the potty. IF you need to go, tell Mama/Papa and I'll take you."

And leave it at that. Follow through. But drop the rest ONLY for 2 weeks.

That's the dummed-down version of the Re-set. For a better handle on it, see the book and special thread on the Forum for the totally simple steps.

Alright! So, Jodie, I hope that I answered your question. It's a doozy to be in the middle of, but usually simpler-than-expected to get out of!

Everyone...please leave your experiences with Potty Pauses, peeing right after, and other shenanigans in the comments below! Thanks! Andrea

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I'm Andrea and I spend most of my time with my 6 children (all under 12 yo) and the rest of my time teaching other new parents how to do Elimination Communication with their 0-18 month babies. I love what I do and try to make a difference in one baby or parent's life every single day. (And I love, love, love, mango gelato.)


  1. Avatar Tanya Parker on November 1, 2012 at 7:43 am

    Thank you Andrea! QY is going through a selective potty pause (mostly resisting when she wakes up at night) and this blog definitely offers some insight. Awesome.

    • Avatar Andrea Olson on November 1, 2012 at 10:34 am

      Hey QY’s fam! So happy to hear that you’re getting some insight from all this. Stay tuned and hopefully you’ll get even more. As for nighttime resistance…we went thru that too. All I can say is that nighttime dryness *does* follow daytime…so if you need to take a break from night pottying I give you full permission to do so! (As *if* you needed permission, but hey!) Sending you guys hugs….xx Andrea

  2. Avatar PottyTimeExcellent on November 1, 2012 at 2:58 pm

    This is exactly what we’ve been experiencing in our home! Could be teething. Poor guy’s trying to pop 8 teeth at once! Regardless of cause, this timely post is most helpful & reassuring. Focusing on consistency & patience. We’re “late starters”/”early potty-trainers”. He’s been diapered for 12 months. Trying to get him unaccustomed to being wet. Offering stress-free pottytunities frequently & consistently. Keeping the faith that he’ll get the hang of it soon. Entertaining the idea of a “pause” for the day considering that I’m surrounded by wet diapers & it’s raining. A day might help him relax & let the laundry dry. Fresh start all around.

    Thanks Andrea!

    – Jennessee

    • Avatar PottyTimeExcellent on November 1, 2012 at 5:54 pm

      Awesome update! We were being totally mellow about potty time & he started doing what I call “The Angry Potty Dance” in his high chair while we were playing after lunch. Thought, “Might as well give it a shot!”. Took him to the potty, & we caught our 1st poo!!! Feeling reinvigorated about our EC journey!

      • Avatar Andrea Olson on November 1, 2012 at 8:49 pm

        Hey Jennessee! I’m so happy to read your comments! A mutual pause is oftentimes just what the doctor ordered. Relaxation all around. But then the high chair success – well done at not being potty-centered, yet also being aware enough to take him! Yay! Glad to support you guys….xx Andrea

        • Avatar Veronica Robison on June 21, 2018 at 12:00 pm

          My husband and I are raising our 21/2 yr old granddaughter. My husband is 71 and I am 63. I forgot how I trained my children. But we have been potty training her for three months and at first she did great and then she regressed. She pees on us when we change her, she pees on the floor, we are changing her at least 6 times a day. We have her in panties and diaper at night when she goes to bed. She will start to pee in her pants and finish in the potty, but she is already wet. We are exhausted. please help us.

  3. Avatar Tarja Stoeckl on November 2, 2012 at 12:55 am

    We recently went through a pause and I had to look at my hoverin’ behaviour as well as all the changes in our lives…it became even better after the pause though and I am grateful we continue on the journey. Interestingly, I notice that we ebb and flow a lot, I like the miss:catch section, a good reminder for us more ‘A’ type mamas. I so appreciate all your insight and thoughts on this, thank you Andrea!

    • Avatar Andrea Olson on November 2, 2012 at 5:09 pm

      Hey Tarja! Can you guess how I came to know that the hoverin’ was the primary culprit to a pause? :o) Yep, have gone thru it myself. Every time, I’d consult with my therapist (ahem, new mom = needs therapist, yes?), and she’d say “well you wrote the book on it, so you’re probably more focused on it than other moms, and besides…going thru this experience will help you *help them* in the future.” I hate it when she’s right! Anyhow, yes, the miss:catch rate gets us A-moms all the time. Good to know all this so we can curb it when it happens! Thank YOU! xx Andrea

  4. Avatar Emily D on December 26, 2012 at 2:22 am

    We are experiencing the pause currently…I even went and got her big girl undies and she still wont sit on the potty long enough for me to catch anything. For her I think it is just her way of being in charge. She loves to help me clean up the messes and I wonder if this is part of it.

    • Avatar Emily D on December 26, 2012 at 2:32 am

      We just tried sitting the potty by the front door and hey presto…she sat and pooped! She was about to get up half way so I quickly grabbed the camel off our nativity for her to hold while she sat.

  5. Avatar Eugenie Gleason on January 12, 2016 at 1:37 pm

    Hey Andrea!

    Sorry this is unrelated to this post but I’m having some trouble figuring out how to contact you.

    I purchased your book when my daughter was a month old in July . I’m finally organized enough to start trying EC with her (6.5 months now) but I can’t login to see the downloadable version of your book . When I click forgot password and put in my email it says that it is invalid! Additionally when I click the link provided in my original “purchase receipt” email, it just directs me to the main page of your website.

    Question: if I bought the downloadable version can I get a hard copy of it? Do you have a hard copy? I think my husband is more likely to be on board with this if he could read it too. If not, I would at least like to be able to log in and get the downloadable version.

    Thanks so much for your help!


    • Avatar Andrea Olson on February 2, 2016 at 1:53 pm

      Hi Eugenie! Just seeing this today. Hope I’m not too late. Simply email and we’ll set you right up! We do have a hard copy too and can help you order that as well. :) Andrea

  6. Avatar Sarah on February 19, 2016 at 7:31 pm

    HI Andrea,
    We are having some intense resistance with sitting on the potty. Even when I “hug” him on he is just so strong and will get up. He went through a potty pause at about 5 months.and we stopped ECing because he would just go straight as a board and refuse. Now that we have taken diapers away it’ he’s going through another potty pause. He had it and now he just won’t sit. What do I do?

    • Avatar Andrea Olson on February 20, 2016 at 1:07 pm

      Hi Sarah! I know you hate to hear it, but this too shall pass. This is very common when the child wants full control over the process. And when there is so much to explore! Shut the bathroom door with both of you in it and at least get the pee IN the bathroom. Start there. “Put your pee in there” – he’s undressed – you busy yourself doing something in the mirror to give him “privacy.” Teach him all the parts. Use the Tiny Potty board book if you have it to reinforce the whole routine. And teach him the final steps so he can do all this himself. Worst case put him on a toilet seat reducer with no stool and he will stay put. Also using a squishy snow globe type toy for the potty may catch his attention to sit long enough. And all that said, keep with it, low key, low emotion, and he will get the bits and do it all himself soon enough :) xx Andrea

  7. Avatar Mary on March 16, 2016 at 12:57 pm

    Thanks for this, and for the podcast about getting back on track in 8-14 month olds.

    My daughter started EC at four months, and it went well until she started crawling at 7 months. Then she started walking at 10.5 months, and we sold our house and moved, and then Christmas, and then some other stresses. We went from all poops in potty and most pees, and her just starting to tap the potty when she had to pee (just before she started crawling), to not tapping the potty, to few pees in the potty, to few poops in the potty, to very rare catches and a lot of resistance to going on the potty/diaper off/diaper on. And hiding to poop. So lately we’ve been doing almost no pottying, although the potties are present on each floor of the house, and she has recently started sitting on the potty to practice sitting down and getting up. I thought I would try getting her to go to the potty and sit on it herself, but of course, she needs a bare bum for this there has been one sit on potty herself and pee episode, and a few put her on potty and she pees episodes, recently. We will maybe try the getting back on track suggestions and see how that goes!


  8. Avatar Liz on April 9, 2016 at 2:12 pm

    One thing that’s sometimes worked for us is to nurse while I hold her over the toilet. But the most important thing is to back off and let the child be in control of their body!

  9. Avatar Your stupid on January 1, 2017 at 11:11 pm

    You guys are all idiots, it’s ridiculous and unnatural to try and potty train this young. It’s proven to cause problems if you force them too when there not ready.

    • Avatar Andrea Olson on July 25, 2017 at 8:47 am

      Actually, “Your stupid,” it’s not proven to cause problems. There is no study that shows this. To the contrary, it is proven to help babies develop more confidently and quickly.

      In 1957 all babies were potty trained by 18 months, and before that, in the US around 12 months was the average latest days. Disposables were invented in 1961. Do the math!

      Also, if this were true, ALL babies of ALL of human history and over 50% of the world’s babies in today’s time would ALL be damaged and have problems.

      This is simply a Big Diaper Company bit of propaganda that you have swallowed.

      Thanks! Andrea

  10. Avatar Sarah on June 21, 2020 at 7:12 pm

    My 18 month old is very capable of holding his pee. We are just starting this after dabbling in the 3 day training (once started I didn’t feel it would be realistic for him) and While I am “ninja hovering” he stops mid stream and will fight being on the potty after that, so there is no “catching” because he holds it once I lift him off the ground. I’m trying to stay casual, and not saying anything in the moment but “pee goes in the potty” but he’s held it up to 10 minutes after and pees as soon as He gets up… so if I’m not catching the pees is he getting the message? Should I let him be naked still until he’s better at going to the potty? Or do I start with hybrid training? He does not go to the potty at all unassisted. Thank you!

    • Avatar Andrea Olson on June 22, 2020 at 6:07 pm

      Hi Sarah! You can try bringing the potty to him instead. If you have the Go Diaper Free book I would definitely do the hybrid plan, it’s perfect for this age. He doesn’t need to go potty unassisted to move forward with potty learning. xx Andrea

  11. Avatar Kay on November 1, 2020 at 4:16 am

    Hi Andrea,
    I just read this post seeking some reassurance. I’ve listened to most of your podcasts and found all your information super helpful, THANK YOU! We have EC’d our son from birth. He is 8months old now and when he was 6months old he was poop trained.. ie. He hadn’t pooped a nappy (we use cloth nappies) since he was 4.5months old. We caught every poo, daily in your special mini-potty for the past 2 months. And we caught most of the pee’s, although he still wets his nappy quite a bit (something I wasn’t too worried about as I read from you that pee’s can take up to 18months before they stop peeing nappies etc.) I was ecstatic that he wasn’t pooping his nappies and all was going really well…all this hard work had finally paid off. Insert potty resistance. He now refuses the potty, arching to get off, sometimes even half way through a pee or poo we have to encourage him to ‘finish up’. And now this last 2 weeks we have had three poop misses! And he pees on the floor straight after offering the potty too :( :(
    We have had one such ‘potty pause’ before when he was 5.5months old. I followed your advice, stayed calm, asked him to please let me know next time and continued as per usual. It passed within a week or so. And it was prob because he was learning to sit! :)

    This time I’m guessing it’s because he is learning to walk? He pulls himself to standing and stands confidently holding onto the baby jail railing and he walks along the couch (early walker watch out, yikes). The three poop misses have all been while he was standing and just happened to be on a moment when we weren’t paying proper attention. Also he is teething and just popped his frist two teeth and more are already on the way.. so that could also play a role here.

    But, I must admit I have slacked off a bit on offering the potty so much for pees as I assumed he won’t poo himself anymore…. and we have stopped night time EC to encourage him to sleep through the night.
    Long story short, I guess I’d like to know if this is my fault for relaxing a bit with the amount of times I EC him a day? Or because we stopped night time EC? Did I drop the ball here? Or would this potty pause have happened regardless due to development leaps? Should I go back to ECing more again or EC less? (I don’t want to keep forcing him over the potty when he is resisting… Even changing scenery isn’t working this time).

    I know I need to remain calm, not get frustrated, not hover (guilty!) And be supportive but man it’s hard to go backwards.
    Hoping this one will pass soon too! Thanks for taking the time to read, you are amazing.

    • Avatar Andrea Olson on November 1, 2020 at 6:36 pm

      Hi Kay! Learning to walk will definitely cause a potty pause. I would recommend doing a two week reset, full time diaper use. Then start back from the beginning with observation when the reset is up. xx Andrea

      • Avatar Kay Weltz on November 5, 2020 at 6:46 pm

        Thanks Andrea! Good to know this is a natural thing and it will pass. Is it also potty resistance if he poos on the floor? (Not just pee), or is something else going on? The last three days he had refused to go with me when I offer and then pees and poos on the floor while standing (his new thing).
        Is he just trying out his standing strength or does this maybe mean he wants to do it alone? I’ve still been holding him over the potty, perhaps he wants to be left alone to do it himself? Or is this still part of the same potty pause thing?
        He has never done that before and now it’s becoming a daily thing! Luckily I know when he needs to go so I can catch him and he finished with me holding him over the potty. Thanks so much for your reply this is so helpful!

        • Avatar Andrea Olson on November 10, 2020 at 10:49 pm

          Yes, that is resistance when they won’t go on the potty and then go on the floor. You can try changing things up like a potty or seat reducer and see if it helps. If not I would do the reset. It will give everyone a break and time for him to work on his developmental milestone. xx Andrea

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